New videos on making decisions with money and meaning

New videos on making decisions with money and meaning

Happy weekend!  I just posted a few new videos to the Intentional Retirement YouTube channel and wanted to share them with you.  They’re just a few minutes each and offer some great insights on how to live an intentional, meaningful retirement.  

To watch, just click on the two links below or you can go directly to our channel to see everything available.  And please do me a huge favor and click “Subscribe” when you visit our channel. That way you’ll be sure to see the latest content when it’s available and it will help more people find us, because the more that people subscribe and watch, the more YouTube will suggest the videos to others. Thanks a ton. You’re awesome!

YouTube Video #1: Easy choices, hard life.  Hard choices, easy life.

In this video I discuss financial decision making and how making disciplined, hard choices can lead you to a place of financial security and abundant options.  If you ever wanted a little motivation to swim against the financial mainstream, this video is for you.

YouTube Video #2: Curate your life.

One of the most important jobs at any museum is the Chief Curator.  It’s his or her job to choose what goes in and what stays out.  In a similar way, you’re the Chief Curator of your life.  Your life (and retirement) will be defined by what you let in and what you keep out.  So be a tough curator.

Thanks for reading (and watching).

Be Intentional,

Joe

How much does your ideal life cost?

How much does your ideal life cost?

How much does your ideal life cost?  Not sure?  Don’t feel bad.  You’re not alone.  I’d be surprised if 1 in 10 people know.  Which is unfortunate, because knowing the price of something is usually a prerequisite to buying it.  Think of every purchase you’ve ever made.  Every car, house, computer, shirt, subscription, meal, concert ticket, vacation and even book.  Price was an important data point, no?  At some point, you considered the price, weighed it against things like affordability and how bad you wanted that thing and then made the decision to either move along or reach for your wallet.  Funding your ideal life is no different.  If you want to “buy” it, it’s important to figure out how much it costs.  Here’s how.  

Step 1: Figure out what you’re spending on your current life.

Begin by listing out your current spending.  Feel free to use our budget worksheet.  Just go through the categories and write down everything you spend, from your phone bill to your car insurance.  And don’t forget about the other side of the ledger.  Write in your income sources as well.  

Step 2: Figure out what your ideal life looks like.

The next step is to outline what your ideal life looks like.  To get started, just write down, in as much detail as possible, what your ideal day (or week or month) would look like.  Where do you live?  Are you renting or do you own a home?  Do you live there year-round?  When do you wake up?  Who are you with?  Does family live nearby?  Friends?  Are you working?  Do you have a car?  What types of things are on your agenda?  Do you have any hobbies?  What kind of pace is important to you?  What types of activities do you do in the area where you live?  When you travel, where do you go and why (e.g. to see family, to go skiing, etc.)?  Do you eat out frequently or mostly at home?  How is your health?  Do you spend time exercising and being active?  What are your sources of income?   The goal with this step is to get clarity about what you want your ideal life to look like.

Step 3: Make an “ideal life” budget.

Now it’s time to start making a budget for your ideal life.  Some things will be easy.  For example, if your ideal house is the one you’re already living in, then you have a pretty good idea of what the costs will be.  If, however, your ideal home is a cabin in Montana and you live in Florida, it’s time to get on Zillow and start doing some research.  Again, use our budget worksheet to help.  How much do you need for your housing?  Hobbies?  Travel?  Insurance? Taxes?  Food?  Utilities?  Be as specific as you can, but also feel free to give yourself an amount for certain categories.  For example, rather than detailing every restaurant meal, maybe you prefer to just allot $300 per month to eating out.  Look at your ideal life and make a budget that funds it.    

Step 4: Compare your ideal life budget to your current life budget.  

Now compare your current budget with your ideal life budget.  Where do they differ?  Are there places you need to trim or eliminate?  No need spending money on things that aren’t important to you.  Or maybe something needs to get added.  Or maybe you see debt payments on your current budget, but in your ideal life you’re debt free.  Time to make a plan to get out debt.  Budgets reflect priorities.  In Step 2, you outlined your priorities.  In Step 3, you calculated what they’d cost.  Now it’s time to align your spending with your priorities.  That likely means change, but it’s good change. You’re moving from imperfect to ideal.  You’re becoming who and what you want to be.  That should be incredibly motivating.  

One thing that might surprise you when you do this exercise is that your ideal life is probably not wildly more expensive than what you’re making and spending right now.  It’s just better directed and more intentional.  So start bringing things into focus.  Cut where you need to cut.  Add where you need to add.  Set goals for making incremental progress.  

Step 5: How much does it take to earn your freedom?  

Was there a shortfall between your current and ideal budgets?  Maybe your expenses are higher in your ideal budget.  Or maybe your income is less, because you don’t plan on working.  Regardless of the reason, that shortfall is what you need to make up in order to earn your freedom (a.k.a. doing what you want to do instead of doing what you have to do).  If where you are isn’t where you need to be, then you need to make a plan for how to get there.  The best way to do that is by creating a detailed financial plan that incorporates all relevant variables (e.g. age, income, spending, life expectancy, taxes, investment returns, market volatility, Social Security, pension, risk tolerance, etc.).  That’s a lot of moving parts.  Unless you’re capable of doing it yourself, I’d encourage you to find a qualified adviser that you trust.  If you don’t have one, feel free to touch base with me.  We can chat about your situation and I’ll let you know if I can help.

Alright, time to get out of the lecture and into the lab.  Grab a piece of paper and get to work.

Be Intentional,

Joe

Two new videos on our YouTube channel

Two new videos on our YouTube channel

I started an Intentional Retirement YouTube channel a few years ago, but haven’t posted anything in a loooong while. Time to change that.  There are several new videos on the channel right now and going forward I’ll try to post new content each week covering both money and meaning. I’d love to have you follow along.  Just click on the two links below to watch the latest or you can go directly to our channel to see everything available.

And please do me a huge favor and click “Subscribe” when you visit our channel. That way you’ll be sure to see the latest content when it’s available and it will help more people find us, because the more that people subscribe and watch, the more YouTube will suggest the videos to others. Thanks a ton. You’re awesome!

YouTube Video #1: 3 Unexpected Emotions in Retirement

In this video I discuss the unexpected emotions that can crop up soon after retiring and give you some strategies for how to cope with them.

YouTube Video #2: Should you pay off your house before you retire?

Hardly a week goes by that I don’t get asked about paying off a mortgage early. In this video I discuss:

  • The things to consider before making a decision
  • The pros and cons of paying off your mortgage before retirement
  • What I did with my house and why

Thanks for reading (and watching).

Be Intentional,

Joe

Here are 5 types of freedom that are essential to a remarkable retirement

Here are 5 types of freedom that are essential to a remarkable retirement

When I say the word “freedom,” what do you think of?  Freedom of speech?  Self-determination? The freedom to choose your own spouse, friends or career path?  Or maybe you envision an open road.  Or a favorite pastime.  Or winning the lottery.  Freedom is not just one thing.  There are many different types, states and levels of freedom.  When it comes to retirement, I think there are five key types of freedom you should strive for.  Those are:

Financial Freedom.  Things cost money.  If you have enough money to pay for the things you want and need, you have financial freedom.  You don’t need to be rich, but you need enough money to fund your ideal lifestyle.  Obviously, that’s a different amount for everyone.  Find out how much it is for you and get to work.  Save more.  Be a good steward of your resources.  Stop spending on things that aren’t important to you.  The more financial freedom you have, the less beholden you are to a job or lender and the more flexible you can be in your life decisions.  Of course, money won’t solve all your problems, but it will usually solve your money problems (to paraphrase Naval Ravikant).  It’s often the table stakes for the other freedoms we’ll discuss below.  

Time Freedom. Think of life as a pie chart that is divided between time you control and time controlled by others. The goal is to gradually shrink the piece of the pie that is controlled by others.  The smaller that piece becomes, the more time freedom you have.  The more time freedom you have, the more retired you are.  Be careful, however.  The most common way to achieve the money freedom we discussed earlier is to trade your time freedom for it.  That can work while you’re building your nest egg, but it’s not a good long-term trade.  The goal is not to be cash rich and time poor.  That’s just prison with a fancy zip code.  The goal is to have financial freedom while simultaneously controlling your time.  

Location Freedom.  Location independence is a key theme at Intentional Retirement.  Being location independent means that you’re not tied to a specific geographic location for work or other reasons.  You are free to move about, explore and experience while still staying on top of work or other obligations.  Pre-pandemic, this was a rarely used and somewhat radical concept.  Post-pandemic, it has become almost normal.  We have the tools and technology to facilitate it and fewer gatekeepers telling us no.  Location freedom is important for obvious reasons.  If the things you have to do are tied to a specific location, they will prevent you from doing the things you want to do that are not.  A caged bird isn’t free. 

Health Freedom.  Think for a minute about how your health can affect your freedom.  For starters, getting sick is expensive.  Health issues often sabotage your financial freedom and can force you to continue working, which undermines your time freedom.  Even worse, being sick or unhealthy will often get in the way of everything else you want to do.  I’m sure many of your plans involve some level of activity.  The worse your health is, the less you’ll be able to do.  Said another way, your health can act as either captor or emancipator.  Better health = More freedom.  

Lifestyle freedom.  Having the first four types of freedom enable you to achieve freedom number five: Lifestyle freedom.  This freedom comes from deciding what you really want out of life and having the time, money, independence and health to pursue those things and make them a reality. 

How are you doing so far?  Any particular area that still needs work?  You can do it.  Just keep in mind that freedom can be tricky.  When you look at the list above, it’s easy to see how acquiring one freedom can cost you another.  That’s less than ideal, obviously.  Figure out all five and you’ll be well on your way to a remarkable retirement (and life). 

Be Intentional,

Joe

How to manage your finances during a crisis

How to manage your finances during a crisis

The world is an uncertain place.  Bad things happen.  No argument there after the last few years, right!?  Sometimes those disasters affect a wide swath of people.  For example, a global pandemic, a housing crisis, terrorism or a stock market collapse.  Sometimes you have the disaster all to yourself.  A job loss, divorce, illness or the unexpected loss of a loved one.  

Regardless of what form they take, most disasters or times of crisis have one thing in common: They tend to do a number on your finances. The stock market dropped more than 50% during the housing crisis of 2008.  Covid job losses in 2020 were in the tens of millions.  Two-thirds of U.S. bankruptcies in a typical year site medical issues as the key contributor.  How can you keep a crisis from ruining you financially?  Here are 22 practical ways to manage your finances before, during and after a crisis.

Before

Not surprisingly, the best time to prepare for difficulty or disaster is before it happens.  Here are a number of things you can start doing now to prepare for (or help prevent) a financial shock.

  • Review your asset allocation and risk tolerance.  You want your money to grow and keep pace with inflation, but you don’t want to take more risk than is appropriate for your situation.  Regularly review your investments to make sure that your risk and allocation are dialed in.  
  • Have a written retirement plan.  One important side effect of having a written retirement plan is that it gives you perspective in a crisis.  That perspective can help calm your nerves and keep you from making reactionary mistakes.  A good plan has a certain amount of unpredictability and volatility built in.  Knowing that your plan will work in spite of the current crisis can be a powerful calming agent.    
  • Build a cash reserve.  Cash is critical in a crisis.  Many experts suggest that you set aside 6 months of expenses in a cash emergency fund, but that’s always seemed like a daunting place to start since surveys show almost half of America couldn’t cover a $400 unexpected expense.  So start with a few thousand dollars.  That’s enough to cover a major car repair or other unpleasant surprise without going into debt.  Once you have that set aside, add to it until you have enough to cover a month or two of expenses.  That would give you a cushion if you lost your job or had some other big disruption.  Then, if you’re able, keep building your cash reserve until you get 4-6 months of expenses set aside so you have enough to ride out a major crisis.  
  • Tighten up your budget.  The fewer obligations you have, the more financially resilient you’ll be.  Most people have a lot of waste in their budget.  Trim the fat. Look for ways to delete, downsize, simplify and optimize.  This will free up some extra cash to add to your cash reserve and will make any remaining spending more sustainable even if your income takes a hit.
  • Fixed vs. Discretionary expenses.  There’s nothing wrong with splurging now and then, but if you’re going to do it, make your splurges discretionary (e.g. travel) instead of fixed (e.g. an expensive mortgage).  In tough times, you can quickly turn off discretionary expenses, but you can’t quit making your house or car payment.  
  • Get your legal affairs in order.  Don’t leave a mess for your family.  Make sure you have a will and powers of attorney and make sure they’re up to date and reflect your current wishes.  
  • Review your insurance coverages.  What if you died or became disabled?  What if you had a major illness or needed long-term care.  Protect your family.  Make sure you have adequate life insurance, disability insurance, health insurance and long-term care insurance.
  • Pay off debt.  Debt adds risk and reduces cash flow.  The less debt you have, the more financially resilient you’ll be.  Make a plan to gradually eliminate your debt and you will greatly increase your odds of weathering a financial storm.
  • Get healthy.  A health crisis often leads to a financial crisis, because getting sick is expensive and can result in the loss of income.  Be proactive with your health.  It’s one of the 8 Habits of Successful Retirees.
  • Do a pre-mortem review.  Think about the types of crises you might face and ask yourself “Could my finances withstand this?”  Look for weak points and vulnerabilities.  Try to anticipate what could go wrong and look for ways to strengthen your defenses.
  • Hire an adviser.  You’ll be more likely to do everything listed so far if you have the help (and accountability) of a trusted, competent adviser.  

During

  • Don’t panic.  The Navy Seals have a saying: “Under pressure, you don’t rise to the occasion, you sink to your level of training.”  That’s why I spent so much time on the “Before” portion of this article.  When bad things happen (and they absolutely will happen), take a deep breath and think about everything you’ve done to prepare.  Don’t make rash decisions.  Seek advice from your trusted advisers.  Handle your emotions.  Respond well.  Do what needs to be done.  Lead.  Take care of those close to you.  Have empathy for others in need and look for ways to help.
  • Study the type of crisis you’re in and respond accordingly.  History doesn’t repeat, but it rhymes.  For example, the market crash in 2008 had similarities with previous ones.  How did those work out?  How long did they last?  What were common mistakes that people made?  How can you avoid the same mistakes?  Knowing history helps you to keep things in perspective and chart a logical course through the crisis.  
  • Communicate effectively with your family.  Be honest and transparent about the situation so you can all be on the same page.  It can be as simple as “Hey, we’re going through a tough time.  We need to make some changes.  We’re going to get through this, but we need to take action.  Let’s have grace and patience with each other and come out stronger on the other side.”  
  • Be data driven.  Review your plan.  What is it telling you based on the new circumstances?  Do you need to cut back spending?  Delay retirement?  Reallocate investments?  Change your Social Security claiming strategy?  Let the data be your guide.  Don’t make rash decisions, but when the data is clear, be proactive and don’t be afraid to stop, pause, shift, delay or change as necessary.
  • Be optimistic, but realistic.  You will likely get through this if you do the right things and take the right actions.  But avoid false optimism that keeps you from doing what needs to be done.  Don’t be afraid to take bold action when needed.
  • Use dynamic spending.  If you’re already retired when the crisis hits, dynamic spending can be a good way to preserve your nest egg in the face of investment volatility.  Read more about it here.
  • Continue investing if you’re able.  This is especially true if the markets are dropping and you’re able to buy shares on sale.  But if you need that extra money to weather the storm, you can stop your automatic investments in things like your 401(K).  Just be ready to start them back up as soon as you’re able.
  • Look for help.  With a major crisis, the government often passes emergency assistance measures.  For example, with COVID we saw special unemployment benefits, PPP, tax relief, stimulus checks and student loan relief.  Local organizations like food banks are also there to help.  Don’t be afraid (or embarrassed) to get help if you need it.  That’s why those things are there. 

After

  • Review.  Do a post-mortem review of the crisis.  What did you do well?  What did you do poorly?  What did you learn?  What can you improve?  Enduring one crisis doesn’t make you immune to the next one, so take what you learned and use it to be better prepared going forward.
  • Recover, rebuild and restart.  What do you need to do to recover?  What needs to change because of your new reality?  For example, if your credit report was impacted by the crisis, what can you do to start repairing it?  If you panicked and moved your investments to cash, how can you get invested again?  If you depleted your cash reserve, how can you start building it back up?  If you stopped things like 401(k) contributions during the crisis, start them up again as soon as you’re able.   
  • Reevaluate your priorities.  Pa Ingalls of Little House fame once said “It’s an ill wind that doesn’t blow some good.”  One of the benefits of enduring a crisis is that it often gives you a better understanding of yourself and what’s important to you.  It forces you out of ruts and gives you a new perspective.  Use those insights to recalibrate and reorient your life around things that bring you meaning, purpose, happiness and fulfillment.  

Be intentional,

Joe